Before you get to work creating a budget, stop and consider an important question: Are you serious about it?
We all know we should be more responsible in budgeting money. We all know we should make a budget and stick to it. And yet most of us continue to exhibit poor spending habits.
"The man who never has money enough to pay his debts has too much of something else.”
- James Lendall Basford |
In the process of creating a budget, you need to ask yourself whether this time is going to be any different than the last time you attempted to rein in your uncontrollable spending. Bottom line, you won't succeed without budgeting help.
One excellent way of making sure you stick to a budget is to tell everyone you’re doing it! It’s the same principle dieters use: If your friends and family all know you’re working on getting out of debt, it won’t be as easy for you to spend more than you make.
The first key in creating a budget you’ll stick to is, of course, including your immediate family, ESPECIALLY your spouse. Household budgeting absolutely will not work unless both partners are fully committed to the budgeting program.
How much you tell your children depends on how old they are; very young children won’t understand a budget plan, while teenagers might just grouse about how a reduced budget means less fun for them.
Another key in creating a budget is coming up with a budgeting plan that you can actually stick to. It’s not realistic to say you’re not going to spend ANY money on unnecessary things like movies and entertainment and new clothes.
It would be great if you could live like that - you’d save tons of money - but realistically, most people are not that disciplined. To set a goal that you’re almost certainly not going to attain is to set yourself up for failure. So don’t do that!
Instead, meet yourself halfway. If you’ve determined that you usually spend about $100 a month on fast food and dining out, don’t resolve to spend zero. Resolve instead to spend only $50. Maybe after a couple months of getting used to that, you can reduce it even further - or maybe $50 is as low as you can go. You know until you try.
Once you’re done creating a budget with your spouse, feel free to talk to close friends and family members about your commitment to budget living. Tell them you want to get out of debt, and to that end, you’re trying to reduce your spending.
You should be proud to finally be in control of your money, but your friends may or make not encourage you. Some will say, “Yeah, I should do that too....” They’ll envy your self-discipline, and since they know what you’re doing, they won’t always be bombarding you with invitations to spend money frivolously.
Others will make fun of your personal budgeting and may even accuse you of just being cheap. Wear every negative comment you hear like it is a badge of honor. If they are making fun of your financial budgeting that is a good sign that you are on the right track, the track of financial success!
"Financial peace isn't the acquisition of stuff. It's learning to live on less than you make, so you can give money back and have money to invest. You can't win until you do this.”
- Dave Ramsey |
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