The frugal lifestyle is 10 percent financial and 90 percent mental. Frugality is all in the mind, but worth the effort as it brings great peace and joy to one’s life.
First you have to commit to yourself that you’re going to live frugally, and to be sure, this is the hardest part. Actually living on a budget is not the hard part, it’s the attitude that one must possess that takes so much self-discipline and willpower.
"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you’ve imagined.”
- Henry David Thoreau |
What does it mean to live a frugal lifestyle? It means you’ve decided that you are not going to be in debt. You are going to live debt-free, completely free of all attachments to credit card companies and other lenders.
The saying, “the debtor is slave to the lender” is true!
A frugal lifestyle means understanding that this is totally different from the way most Americans think. It means laughing at the commercials you see that want to “help you get out of debt” by SELLING you some “money-saving” service.
Who do they think they’re fooling?! Not you, not anymore!
Being frugal doesn’t mean being cheap, miserly, or poor. The label of being “Frugal” should be received as a high compliment. It means you’re smart, mature, and responsible.
Frugal people manage their money wisely, spend it intelligently, and make informed decisions. Cheapskates and misers don’t want to part with money, period.
That’s not you, right? You love spending money! Yet, as someone who is frugal, you just prefer to spend it on sensible things, at the best possible price, and only when you actually need it.
The credit card companies are out of control. They intentionally target people they know won’t be able to repay their debts on time, so that they can charge over-limit fees and late fees and other fees.
The credit card industry sells this LIE to people, that “freedom” comes in a little plastic card. This message borders on being criminal. As a minimum, the message is misleading and irresponsible.
When you live a frugal lifestyle, you REJECT that lie and you embrace the truth: That the only real freedom comes in not owing any money to anyone, period! That’s true independence.
No one who owes thousands of dollars to credit cards companies, who must spend most of his paycheck paying off debts, can really consider himself “free,” can he?
Ask 100 people if they think it’s wise to pay for something that they can get cheaper elsewhere, or that they can do themselves for free, and all 100 people will say “No, of course that’s not wise”.
Yet, if you tracked those same people’s spending habits, you’d probably find 80 of them doing exactly that. They buy things they don’t need, they pay people to do things they could do themselves, they pay top dollar when they could have paid a discount price.
But not you, not any longer. You’re frugal - sensible, smart, and self-disciplined, and you have the peace of mind that comes with it.
"Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing.”
- Abraham Lincoln |
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