Household budgeting is not a complicated matter. It simply boils down to this: Spend less than you earn.
Yes, it’s easier said than done, of course, but the principles are no more complicated than that. The most difficult part is allowing yourself the time to form the proper spending and saving habits.
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"Who goes a-borrowing goeth a-sorrowing."
- Thomas Tusser |
It is imperative that both husband and wife be actively involved in the process of household budgeting. Both partners must be fully committed to the plan or else it WILL NOT WORK.
If one of you is prepared to make some small sacrifices in order to get out of debt, save money, and achieve financial freedom, while the other is not quite ready - well, it’s simply not gonna happen.
Both parties must be equally involved.
Household budgeting means making some rules for yourselves. Some of those rules might include:
- Prepare a written budget every month, and track your spending every day.
- Invest a certain percentage of your monthly gross pay and never touch it.
- Diversify your investments to minimize risk.
- Donate to church or charity regularly. It’s good karma, it’s beneficial to others - and if nothing else, it’s a tax write-off.
- Never go into debt in order to buy something that will depreciate in value - like a car, boar, or RV.
- Never gamble in any form. That means no casinos, and no lottery tickets.
- Get out of debt as quickly as possible for maximum rewards.
Obviously, both partners must adhere to these rules for them to work. There might be others that you can implement, too, such as quitting smoking, stop buying expensive coffee drinks daily, etc.
When you and your spouse sit down for some good old-fashioned household budgeting, try to be enthusiastic and have a positive outlook with regard to saving money.
It’s an adventure, and you’re in it together! Focus on the goal: getting out of debt and preparing for the future.
Once you’re out of debt, you’ll have so much less stress, and there will be fewer (if any) arguments about money. You’ll be able to enjoy your money for once.
Hopefully the visions of these future payoffs will keep you motivated now, as sacrifices are required along the way.
It’s also important that you don’t accuse each other of wasting money. If you think there’s a particular expense that should be reduced or eliminated that you know is dear to your spouse’s heart, bring up the subject gently and with love.
When you suggest reducing it, suggest reducing one of your own expenses, too, to reinforce the idea that you are equal partners and you’re in this together.
When you said “I do”…”for richer or poorer”, you didn’t really plan on living poor, right? The good news is you don’t have to, get started today.
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"Rather go to bed supperless than rise in debt."
- Benjamin Franklin |
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